Couples counseling for my parents šŸ‘«

What do you do when your parents fight all the time? šŸ‘ŠšŸ½ šŸ‘ŠšŸ½
Well if you’re anything like me, you suggest helpful measures that they blatantly ignore because apparently they enjoy fighting.
I’m old enough to go to couples counseling myself but honestly amidst all this “fighting” that my parents do, I don’t have the mental space to look at my own marital issues.
And it’s not like my parents have some deep rooted issues or serious relationship problems. They just fight on each and every small thing like when they eat breakfast and if the cereal is “too sweet” and whose fault is it or whose turn it is to do the dishes or make tea. And when I tell them they can hire help to do all this, they just dismiss my suggestion calling it a generation gap and how we can’t support ourselves.

I mean do parents understand what kind of trauma it cause their kid to be in constant fear of when they are going to be at each other’s throat. And then the stupidest thing is that their fights don’t last, they are not going to divorce each other. Oh no no. They will fight, shout at each other, scream abuses, sometimes cry and then in another hour or a couple of hours sit next to each other and watch some stupid comedy show like nothing ever happened.

Anyway, I’ve learnt a little on how to deal with it but it still bothers me sometimes when they call me up to just rant about their latest fight. Other days I just listen to it like I listen to the credit card calls. Last time I gave them and ultimatum whether they want me to book a divorce lawyer or a couples counseling session. Haven’t heard back yet.

10 responses to “Couples counseling for my parents šŸ‘«”

  1. Too bad… my parents disagreed occasionally but never fought. Same with my husband’s parents. And well, the same is true in our marriage. We don’t disagree very often but then again we don’t fight either… I suppose they must like to argue. Too bad really.

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    1. Hey thanks for sharing your side! Yeah, that’s what I’ve come to terms with that they just like to argue

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  2. Iā€™m not sure about this case, but I knew an old couple, who also used to fight frequently, but later I came to know that it was their pastime. They used to fight and forget. That was their way to love and coexist, disregarding what others thought or said.

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    1. That’s what I’m trying to be okay with! That it is nothing serious when they bicker. Do you by any chance know how intense that other old couple’s fights were?

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      1. Shouting at each other was common, as if they would come to blows, but they did it never. I think it was their way to handle old-age frustrations.


        1. Hhmm.. Thank for the insight! It’s relatable

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  3. Now that’s tough love! I thought my parents would divorce a long time ago too, but they keep going.
    We can’t understand. They know each other better. I think.

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    1. Wow! How do you cope up with it (for the lack of a better word)


      1. That was long ago. They calmed down. They know better.

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